*BONUS* “thing” achieved: Do a Life Drawing class

I’m an artist now!

Drawing has never been a strong suit of mine; at school I opted for Pottery rather than drawing or painting. I’ve ever quite got the hang of translating what my eye sees, and my brain wants to convey, onto paper.

Last week I met a girl at a Flashmob, Helen, who was doing 30 things for her 30th, and completing a Life Drawing class was one of her goals. When her friend dropped out at the last minute, I jumped at the chance to try something new and expand my artistic horizons!

We turned up at a funky pub in Balham where they run Life Drawing classes each month. Dan, the chap who ran the sessions, is an accomplished artist with bags of enthusiasm and a great sense of fun.  We were greeted by a table of different materials – felt tips, charcoal, crayons, chalk etc; I was like a kid in a sweet shop when I grabbed a handful of everything “just in case”!

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All the materials!

I didn’t have any expectations but was still surprised and slightly relieved at the format. Rather than lots of arty types staring seriously at a model for hours, it was a light, fun atmosphere with many of the other attendees swigging their wine and excitedly wielding their materials ready to start.

We began with a 7 minute pose, where the beautiful model arranged herself aesthetically and we all attempted to draw what we saw. Dan explained that they usually alternate between male and female models and they play with different styles and concepts – next time they will have a dancer to explore movement, other times light and shadow, other times look at cubist art etc.

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First pose

Dan then tried to get us to throw away our previous learned behaviours. We did another pose, 5 minutes this time, trying different materials. I used a really light pastel which you can’t really see in the photo so I’ve not posted them. We then had another pose where we were challenged to use our non-dominant hand! That was a bit harder but I had a good go at it!

Next we were challenged to focus on what we saw – so we had 3 minutes to draw without looking at the paper at all. I was pleasantly surprised that my picture came out looking even vaguely like a person!  Then we experimented with trying to express the stress and strain of an uncomfortable looking pose.

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Left: Drawn without looking at paper. Right: Stress and strain

Next we had a quick-fire session where we had 3 poses, a minute each, and we had to draw each on top of the other in one continuous line (without lifting the pencil from the paper). We then worked on how to accept mistakes and refine, by drawing and correcting over the top. I chose to do each layer of correction in a different colour so I could see how the picture evolved.

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Left: 3 quick fire poses, one continuous line. Right: Refining mistakes

We also looked at how to simplify images, so tried drawing using only geometric shapes; and finally tried experimenting with light and shadow.

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Left: Geometry. Right: Light and shadow.

We then did something completely different – with a blank sheet of paper and no materials, we were challenged to create something that represented the next pose. I was pretty proud of my little paper lady!

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Paper lady

Phew! After all that, and a short break, we finished the evening by playing with different media (this month was Collage!) so I had great fun cutting, ripping and sticking.  Funnily enough I was looking at everyone else’s efforts and admiring their results whilst being disappointed in my own, only to have a couple of people look at mine and say “oh that’s really good, wish I could do that!” so I guess we are truly our own worst critics!

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Collage

I already had 40 things on my list but one of them is proving to be difficult to arrange (who knew stalking a celeb would be so hard?!) so I am pleased to add this achievement to the list as a late addition, and hopefully keep my total achievements at the magic number of 40.

If you want to give this a go, I would strongly recommend it. I’ll probably even go with you!

Contact details below.

The Exhibit: http://theexhibit.co.uk/life-drawing/
Dan: http://www.danwhiteson.com/life-drawing/

10th “thing” achieved: 20. Learn to do 40’s hair

Vintage hair skills

I’ve always loved vintage style, and in particular I love the elegant hairstyles of the 1940’s with the Victory rolls and flawless looks.

I’ve had a vintage makeover before and loved it, but never managed to replicate the look for myself.  Natalie and I met Lucy at a Vintage fair last year and hired her to do our hair for a friend’s wedding, so when we decided to learn how to do it ourselves, she was our first choice.

Lucy offered us the choice of going to her place, or coming to us – we chose for her to come to us, and met on a Saturday morning. She supplied all of the equipment, although she also brought a shopping list so that we could go buy they stuff for ourselves afterwards. She demo’d it on a model head first, it took about 10 minutes and looked really easy so I thought this one would be a cinch!

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Lucy made it look easy

We started by curling one side of our hair in sections, then backcombing it. We thought we looked like the Who’s out of The Grinch!

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Part one – crazy hair stage

We then smoothed out the outside, and twisted into a roll. This was my absolute nemesis and I ended up getting quite emotional when I couldn’t do it! It turns out my brain is not able to reverse the images I see in a mirror so I kept twisting the hair the wrong way and I got more and more frustrated.

In the end I had to abandon it and start again on the other side, which was much better, then go back to the original side to make a second roll.   I finally managed to do something, it was quite messy but kind of in the right shape.

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Part two – the finished articles! All thanks to Lucy (ignore my slightly swollen post-tears eyes)

I went out and bought all the gear and then a few days later I had another go. It actually turned out alright!

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The finished article, quite proud!

Still need some practice, and when Natalie and I go to the Nostalgia festival next week we won’t have the luxury of curling tongs – but overall I feel like I might be able to pull it off without shaming myself!

I’d definitely recommend that if you fancy this, give Lucy a shout. She is absolutely brilliant, patient and encouraging, and she really knows her stuff. Or if you just want the ‘do without the hassle, get Lucy to do it for you, she is a hair genius!

Lucy’s contact details:
Website: Hair that Turns Heads

7th “thing” achieved: 40. Visit Las Vegas!

Amazing road trip to the West Coast of America!

When I was 19 I saved up all my money to go backpacking around Europe. I wanted to experience new cultures and explore the world. I did my 6 week tour, then returned home to get stuck straight into University, then a job, always intending to travel again soon.

20 years later and I hadn’t really gone much further. Most of my mates had been to the USA, particularly Vegas, and I really wanted to go. With no hen do’s or other big celebrations pending, I decided to make it happen for myself.

Natalie and I went on a 2 week trip which included Vegas, LA and San Fransisco. There are so many cool pictures of our experiences you will need to look on Facebook, but below is a snapshot of our itinerary:

Mon 6/3/17: Flew to Vegas and arrived at the Palazzo, our hotel. Although our flight was 10 hours we arrived at 1pm due to the time difference. Fighting to stay awake we wandered around the immediate vicinity; looking at the Venetian, Treasure Island, and the Wynn. I especially loved the fake streets and canal at the Venetian.

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Day 1: Flight, Palazzo and Venetian

Tue 7/3/17: Up at 5am to go to the Grand Canyon – luckily we were still on UK time! We stopped by the Hoover Dam on the way to the West Ridge of the Canyon – and went on the Skywalk, which is this glass walkway that juts over the Canyon. As someone who is terrified of heights, I felt pretty brave up there, until I looked down and had a little meltdown! As part of our tickets we also got a free “CSI” experience at the MGM so we went to do that – big mistake as we were so tired. We had been recommended a buffet at Caesar’s Palace but it was closed – ended up with Fish & Chips of all things at Gordon Ramsay’s chippy. At least we got to see the famous musical fountains at the Belaggio though.

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Wed 8/3/17: We took a bus tour up the strip, taking in the famous Welcome to Las Vegas sign, then we popped into loads of hotels for a nosey – MGM, New York New York, Aria, Belaggio, Caesar’s Palace. We had the best buffet at Belaggio – we were so excited to see vegetables! We then went to see a Cirque du Soleil show – Ka – which was absolutely amazing. We finished the night by gambling at MGM’s slot machines and taking the monorail home.

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Day 3: Vegas sightseeing

Thu 9/3/17: We visited Circus Circus and saw some acts – a clown and an acrobatics act. Nat was particularly happy to see the balancing/strength act, she’s wanted to see that “T” move in the picture for ages! We then got the tour bus again and looked at all the wedding chapels, then visited the Mob Museum. We spent the evening in Fremont Street which is really freaky! We had dinner at a lovely restaurant called Therapy, checked out a rooftop club, then went to get our pics taken with $1,000,000. We finished the night by having cocktails at the top of Stratosphere, overlooking all of Vegas with the occasional person plummeting past the windows (on a wire, you’ll be pleased to hear)! On the way home we popped in to Flamingo’s to see Nat’s favourite birds, before sloping off to bed.

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Day 4: Downtown Vegas

Fri 10/3/17: We picked up our faithful chariot, Chad the Chrysler. We fell in love with him immediately. We drove to Victorville via the Mojave National Preserve. We saw a Joshua Tree preserve, sand dunes, and a place called “hole in the wall” (where there were literally holes in the rock wall…) but we didn’t have much time to explore. We did a little detour via Route 66 but the road so so terrible we had to come off it. We watched the sunset over the desert – beautiful.

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Day 5: Meet Chad

Sat 11/3/17: Drove to LA and tried to go to the Griffiths Observatory – but it was so busy we didn’t get up to the top to see the Hollywood sign. We drove via Rodeo Drive & Santa Monica Blvd to our accommodation, then on to Venice Beach. It was busy despite a bit of fog – what an eclectic mix of people! My favourites were the bongo-playing rollerblader, and the guy with a Scooby-Doo scooter.  We found our way into the funky area and had Black Cod and cocktails for dinner. We finished off by finding the stars and hand prints on Hollywood Blvd. Our hands touched the same bit of concrete that the celebs touched! Finally we found a place where the Hollywood sign can be viewed, but as it was dark we saw nothing.

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Sun 12/3/17: Went back to finally see the HOLLYWOOD sign. We then went on to Universal Studios, where we did an epic tour of the studios, met loads of characters, did a Walking Dead experience (v scary) and I won a unicorn for Nat in the Despicable Me bit! We met loads of Simpsons, had lunch at Krusty Burger, and then the best bit – Harry Potter! The rides were amazing and Hogsmeade & Hogwarts were fantastic. We even took part in the Triwizard opening ceremony! Did a night-time drive to the next stop; Santa Barbara.

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Day 7: Hollywood sign and Universal Studios, plus introducing Candy Floss the Unicorn!

Mon 13/3/17: Found a great little café in Santa Barbara for breakfast (The Daily Bread), then went to see the Old Mission Church where Franciscan monks had first established themselves – real history! Then on to the Court House for some amazing views and mosaics, before starting our journey along the Coast Road (Highway 1). Arrived at Ragged Point Inn to discover that Highway 1 was closed as it was hit by a weatherbomb in Jan/Feb and the Big Sur bridge was down. We were really disappointed but the location was beautiful and we spent the evening watching the sunset and stargazing.

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Day 8: Santa Barbara

Tue 14/3/17: Woke up early to watch the sunrise, then off to find elephant seals. It was really foggy but we were able to get quite close, pretty amazing to see. Went to Hearst Castle, which was totally amazing – took the Grand Rooms tour. Click here for more information – this thing was epic! The chap built a castle in the middle of California and filled it with antiques and works of art from all over Europe. It famously became the hangout of loads of film stars of the 20’s and 30’s. When we had seen all we could, we headed for Carmel – tried to watch the sunset but it was so foggy we couldn’t see more than 50 metres so we headed back to the hotel for dinner and jacuzzi.

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Day 9: Seals and Hearst Castle

Wed 15/3/17: Went to a tiny town called Moss Landing to see the sea otters. It was a quaint village with wooden houses and everything. It even had a little “Otter Crossing” – cute! We then drove into San Francisco, and looked at the bridge but it was hidden by the fog. We went out for dinner in Valencia, before going to Mission City Swing for some genuine West Coast Swing dancing. The teacher there was amazing and I felt that I learned a lot from just one class – fantastic!

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Day 10: Moss Landing and entering San Francisco

Thu 16/3/17: Got the tram into town, we intended to do a bus tour but it took ages to arrive so we stuck with trams and went to Fisherman’s Wharf. We saw where Alcatraz and the famous bridge would have been if not shrouded in fog, then on to Pier 39 (My age! Yay!) to see the Sea Lions. Finally it was time to say goodbye to Chad and get on the plane home.

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Day 11 – San Fran Bay, a foggy Alcatraz, sea lions, and the tram

All in all, it was a fantastic trip and whilst expensive, definitely the trip of a lifetime. I am so thankful for Natalie who planned it all and kept me to task, not to mention put up with me for 2 whole weeks!

Each place could have done with a few days to do them justice, but I am happy that I can truly tick this one off the list.

  • For photos from Vegas and Grand Canyon, click here.
  • For the Adventures of Chad the Car, click here.
  • For the California Dreamin’ Road Trip photos, click here.

6th “thing” achieved: 23. Treat the house to an upgrade

Expensive, but at least I’m clean and warm.

When I bought my house 6 years ago, it still had the original warm air heating system that it was built with in 1980. The boiler was ancient, the heating noisy and inefficient, and so I immediately got quotes for Central Heating.

£6,000! “It’s the piping and the radiators you see luv,” they said. It caused me a real dilemma. As well as the cost, I would need to completely re-jig my house which has special cavities built in for the warm air to circulate, and instead use up precious wall space to put radiators, and have pipes all over the place.

So I put it off, and put it off, thinking that if it ain’t broke, why waste the money? It got to 2016 and I decided this was my year to take action. Expensive or not, I would get new heating. And a shower that had normal water pressure instead of a dribble.

Well of course that is when it broke, and just as I had promised to get it sorted!

After a lot of research and steeling myself against the sting of parting with my hard-earned cash, I decided to retain the warm air system, but upgrade to a modern one. I’m really happy with the results, and my house hasn’t been trashed in the meantime! It didn’t cost £6,000 in the end (didn’t have to buy the pipes of or radiators, you see luv) but still was a fair chunk of cash.

Totally worth it as I sit in my toasty house (which even has an air circulation option for summer) and every time I have a proper power shower…. Bliss!

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New shower with proper water pressure!

4th “thing” achieved: 8. Earn Chartered status

Also known as “Insurance Nerd”

I’ve always wanted to excel academically as well as professionally. As my chosen career is in the service sector, I have often felt a little twinge of regret that I didn’t get a PhD like all my friends.

Insurance is the career I chose, and I do genuinely love it. But it’s more than just making a sale – I wanted to be the best, and give people the benefit of high quality advice. Being recognised as “Chartered” means that I have learned and demonstrated my knowledge and understanding of the complex world of insurance.

It took years of study, a multitude of exams and assignments, and a lot of dedication to earn an Advanced Diploma in Insurance (ACII). From there, I was able to apply to our industry body, the Chartered Insurance Institute, for Chartered status.

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All the books

In December 2016 I got my gold membership card, which puts me in an exclusive club of insurance nerds! So pleased I finally achieved it!

Lynn Toynton, Bsc. (hons), ACII, Chartered Insurance Broker

8th “thing” achieved: 22. Volunteer in the local community

Helping the disadvantaged in Guildford

When I talk to people about the local community, I often hear people say that they want to do more, but don’t know how to get involved. I wanted to ensure that I did get involved, and a couple of years ago I happened across Ready 4 Action.

It’s an annual volunteer programme to provide support to the local community. Every year on the first Bank Holiday in May, all of Guildford’s local churches get together and help the disadvantaged in practical ways such as gardening, decoration, fixing things, and rubbish clearance.

Usually it’s over all 3 days and as I was already busy on the Saturday I turned up on the Sunday morning. I was disappointed to learn it was cut back to 1.5 days this year, in part due to lack of funding. However I had turned up to do my bit, and paid my £5 registration fee, collected my t-shirt and waited for my orders.

They split us into teams, with a leader and foreman. We were assigned to a garden to clear but the recipient was not in, so we were reassigned to another garden.  This was for a family of 7, two formerly single parents who had got together and now had a large family with 5 kids. The garden was large, but probably too large. It had become overgrown with brambles and nettles which had surrounded all of the children’s play areas, and it was clear that the garden had deteriorated into a job that was too big for the residents to cope with.

When our team of four arrived, we joined another team of five. Between us we managed to clear years’ worth of rubbish, leaves, brambles, nettles, dirt, and garden debris. We were joined after a few hours by another team of 3 and then we managed to turn the overgrown mess into a proper garden again. We chatted to the owner who was really grateful. He had got to the point where he didn’t know where to start as it was completely beyond him. As it took 12 of us to clear it, you can see how for one man, it was far too much. Now all he has to do is maintain it!

We filled 2 tipper trucks with rubbish and finished the day with the satisfaction of a job well done. The church had a BBQ for the volunteers but I skipped it in favour of going home for a nap!

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All the rubbish

The opportunities to help are out there, we just need to make a bit of effort to find them.

If you want to find out more, please feel free to message me or click here for information on the Matrix Trust.

5th “thing” achieved: 9. Learn Calligraphy

I can write fancy now

I’ve always admired beautiful writing, and when I was about 12 someone gave me a little framed picture with a bible verse on it. The writing was lovely and it inspired me to try calligraphy. Of course what I actually did was get a slanty pen and write neatly. But the seed was sown: it’s been on my list of things to learn for ages.

Finally I did something about it. I searched for local courses and found a lady called Judy Broad  who ran courses and signed myself up.

I arrived at a lovely venue and settled in to what looked like a little shed, but was perfectly decked out inside, and thus began our writing adventure. Joining me were a few graphic designers wanting to expand their repertoire, a lady who got it for a 70th birthday gift with her daughter, a bride to be who wanted to save money on her wedding stationery, a couple who recently married and discovered a love for typography whilst writing their own signs etc, and two friends who were on a mission to experience as many “adventures” as possible.

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Our workshop was in that little shed

We began by setting up our pens and ink (kindly supplied) and practicing basic pen strokes. Who knew straight lines and ovals could cause so much trouble?

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My writing supplies

We then went on to practice the alphabet and finally actually write some words. After a break for coffee and cake Judy showed us some examples of flourishing, and of course we all gasped in admiration as she effortlessly wrote and embellished her words beautifully.

After a couple of hours of intense concentration, I finally managed to come up with some acceptable work.

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My random scribblings

Judy was so helpful and her open relaxed style really created a great atmosphere, and our little group were friendly, with everyone encouraging and complimenting each other. When one of the guys suggested holding my pen further away from the nib, it helped no end!

Overall a lovely afternoon and I feel like I have gained a skill. I still have more to learn and I will definitely be taking another class in the future!

To find out more about Judy’s workshops, visit her website here.

3rd “thing” achieved – 11. Lincoln Xmas Market

I Love Lincoln ❤

I’m really proud of my hometown. It dates back to 1st Century BC and has examples of Roman architecture, a medieval castle and cathedral, buildings harking back to every major architectural era,  and a very Steep Hill.

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The Castle was commissioned by William the Conqueror in 1068
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Steep Hill with Tudor buildings galore

Since moving to Surrey I have often waxed lyrical about my beloved heartland and seized the opportunity to show off the reason for my pride, whilst also visiting the world-renowned Christmas Market.

Nat and I headed up to Lincoln on the Saturday evening and arrived about 9pm. We had a quick look that evening but the real experience started on the Sunday. We set out at midday and it took us almost 5 hours to work our way through all 200 stalls, including food and drink, and of course we had to stop to say hello to Santa!

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Obviously we have been very good girls!

There were plenty of great stalls selling all sorts of high quality crafted items, all by locals, and amazing food and drink. We were entertained by a military marching band, buskers, Irish dancers, Morris dancers and violinists.

I also took the opportunity to show Natalie some of the beautiful buildings that form part of our history in a brief whistlestop tour, including the famous Newport Arch and my personal favourite, the Cathedral.

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The Cathedral, dates back to 1092
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Newport Arch, dates back to some time in 300 AD

All in all, a great day and I think it’s going to become a regular tradition! Note to self: Next year, bring more cash!

 

 

2nd “thing” achieved: 14. Knit something (not a scarf)

A brief yarn about making stuff

I love making things. It’s exciting when you start out, brimming with plans (most of which are completely beyond your skill level), going crazy in the shops buying all the gear, the challenge of making the thing, and the sense of achievement.

I’ve been able to knit since I was a kid, and I had those little plastic starter needles. But I never got past knit and purl. I’ve made countless scarves but increasing/decreasing, counting stitches, following patterns, turning corners… all of this was totally beyond me. So was born the challenge; to push myself.

I bought a couple of books but the sum of all patterns for people who only know 2 stitches was… well, a scarf. Or a headband. Or a knitted belt…. you get the picture, something straight and scarf-like. The next step up seemed to be a full on jumper with fancy bobbly bits and patterns and stuff.

So I decided to buy a pre-made kit, you know with all the wool, the instructions etc. But couldn’t find one anywhere! I was just about to resign myself to a trip to deepest and darkest Woking in search of a Hobbycraft store when I finally found a magazine with the stuff I needed and cracked on.

It took a total of 3 evenings but required a fair amount of concentration, and I may have mentioned before that I am easily distracted.  Not to mention all of the new skills – counting stitches and rows, trying to keep it neat and even, interpreting the abbreviations, googling how to pick up stitches along an edge, how to change wool without just tying a knot, and all that good stuff.

To be honest, I think I prefer baking or sewing, but knitting and crochet require so little specialist equipment and it’s easy to do in front of the telly of an evening.

Why don’t you try pushing yourself outside your comfort zone and try making something you thought was a bit beyond your skill level? If nothing else, it keeps you busy and you might get something useful out of it! Best of all is that smug feeling of accomplishment when you finally finish it and it kind of looks OK!

 

I’m going to try making fingerless gloves next, so wish me luck!

1st “thing” achieved: 13. Play Phil’s Rules D&D

We played a game. It was a bit nerdy 🙂

So I finally managed to complete one of my 40 things!

It was to play a kind of fantasy adventure board game with my friends. I refer to it as D&D because the most famous version of this type of game is Dungeons and Dragons – the one we played was a little different but the basic premise was much the same. The difference is that my friend Phil came up with this one, and it was a kind of final hurrah before our friend Dave leaves us for a new life in Toronto.

I came to Role-Playing games (shush you, this is clean…) in my 30’s. On the telly and in films it is depicted as socially inept nerdy teenagers pretending to be elves and wizards, immersing themselves in this fantasy world rather then going outside, having a life and meeting girls.

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Typical nerds on a D&D bender with crisps, energy drink and complicated dice

You might be imagining something like this video,
Or maybe something like this clip from the Big Bang Theory

It’s actually quite fun, OK so there are some quite nerdy moments but in general we don’t take it that seriously. We tell and experience a fun story, solve puzzles, make up silly stuff and enjoy the company of our friends. But with dice and stuff.

In the original game, rules are complicated and there is much reference to rule books, rolling of many-sided dice and in-depth calculations before a character can take an action. It can be slow moving and you can see how only the detail-focused dedicated types have the patience to see it through.

Phil has developed a version which is more accessible and focuses on the fun part of playing – that of telling a story that changes as you interact with it, trying to solve clues and do silly things, yes still rolling a dice to see if you are successful or not, but much less min/maxing of stats and more “I want to do this thing, how do I make it happen”.

The story is set in a world where humans live alongside elves, halflings, goblins etc. (bear with me here!) Magic exists, electricity doesn’t. Think kind of medieval. We chose our characters in a very non-scientific way, by imagining any character and their key attributes, then setting up a very basic set of statistics to work with. To be fair there were so few stats to set it didn’t take long and we were able to just crack on with the game.

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Picking our characters

 

Our team consisted of:

  • Ermintrude (Natalie) – a trained medic with matronly demeanour, not known to suffer fools gladly
  • Dave The Elf (Chris) – a thief, who uses charm and stealth to get what he wants
  • Jöhn (Will) – a mage with powers to summon and control animals
  • Ragnar Rimeson (Dave) – a warrior like Northman, dressed somewhat like Cohen the Barbarian with a questionable loincloth
  • Brian (me) – an angry dwarf with a size complex and no sense of humour.

Phil set up a scenario that had our imaginary characters trekking into the unknown and stumbling across many baddies that needed dispatching. Super organised as he was, he even drew a map as we went so that we could visualise what was going on 🙂

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Something important is happening in this mysterious cave

I started typing up the actual story and it occurred to me that it was one step too far into nerddom and so I managed to check myself 🙂

The evening was brilliant and a lovely send-off for Dave who leaves for Canada shortly.  The game itself was great fun and a lovely way to spend an afternoon with friends. Lucky and unlucky dice rolls led to some interesting times, narrowly escaping a total massacre of our characters one minute and then later annihilating the final boss which was supposed to be a big challenge in just a few moves.

If you’ve never played one of these, why not give it a go? And if you have dabbled, or play loads, here are some of my favourite silly things to check out: